The Elusive ‘Writer’s Voice’
When I started my blog here at mummy2mum in November 2014 I wrote for the sheer pleasure of it! Blogging carved out a space and place for me to reflect meaningfully on my experiences and share those with others.
I had read that successful bloggers found this elusive thing called their ‘voice’.
Where do you find your voice? Can you fast-track it like an express delivery service?
The answer to that is No!
Your voice as writer evolves slowly over time, but it is dependent on one key factor – personal growth.
I have been writing for many years, but mostly erratically.
I would write a poem for a 50th birthday, a speech for a wedding and eulogies for funerals. I would sporadically keep a journal, usually at times of personal upheaval when my brain was overloaded and chaotic. But blogging changed all that.
The Beauty of Blogging
Blogging brought routine, commitment and awareness of the writing process. I made time to write.
I became aware of the creative process, the feeling of being inflow from brain to fingertips, as the words sped onto the page. I learned to let my heart speak uninterrupted before letting my head edit, critique and rationalise. I gave myself freedom to write about whatever inspired me, whether that was PMT, bikini bodies or motherhood.
And slowly a small community of loyal readers expressed their emotional connection with my writing through comments, shares and likes.
Comments like this one from Growing Up KaterTot have helped shape my writing journey:
I am so deeply moved by this post. I have a long way to go before my daughter reaches her teen years, but I often wonder if I’m even going to know who I am at that time. Right now, my identity is “P’s mom,” and I wouldn’t change it for the world. I’m pinning this on my own personal board today. Hoping that I’ll remember to look at this down the road when my little one has grown.
I realised that when I wrote with passion, vulnerability and explored those areas of conflict within myself it evoked either laugher, tears or sometimes both, and readers connected with me. Now I didn’t set out to have this effect, but I understand that my best writing, my most intuitive creative posts are exactly those pieces.
The pieces that are written from the heart and speak to the soul.
My Voice, My Place
As a writer I have found a place where I want to stay a while, to linger, exhale and explore.
That place is where I write most fluently from the heart, where I am authentic and allow my mind to expand, create and connect with everything that I am.
That place is an exploration of identity, motherhood and the creation of an abundant self.
And it’s redefining my blog here at mummy2mum.
So What’s Changing?
In defining my voice I’m carving out a new place and space for my writing.
Mummy2mum will have a new direction, purpose and vision.
Many of you who know me personally have heard me talk about wanting to help women ‘find themselves’. This is my core mission here at mummy2mum.
I want to explore the challenge of creating an independent identity as a woman whilst giving so much of yourself to others; the challenge of an abundant self!
I have made small changes to my website to reflect this focus, so that new readers will understand my mission, vision and values.
What does this mean for my current readers?
More of the passionate, heart-felt posts that you all respond to with such enthusiasm! And less of the recipe posts, less of the ‘how to’ parenting posts and more about your journey as woman & a mother!
I hope you’ll enjoy the new feel to mummy2mum. She’s found her identity at last.